Many women see oral sex as a medium to increase intimacy with their partner. However, there are some women who literally stay away from the idea of going down on him. Either her morals or culture don’t allow her to do so, or her guy himself is the reason that she doesn’t enjoy oral sex much. Here are a few reasons that she is not at all interested in oral sex:
1. Her principles
Some girls may find it against their principles to get his man’s penis inside their mouth. As per her belief, bad women enjoy doing it, but civilized women don’t. And she will never want to fall in that category of ‘bad women’.
2. Hygiene issues
Some girls love going down, but they simply drop that idea after seeing gross pubic hair. That’s an unpleasant view indeed! And that filthy smell coming out of your hair is an instant turn off. If your girl has some hygiene issues while performing oral sex, you better shave or trim your hair down there.
3. He treats her like an object
Sometimes, men are so much influenced by porn characters that they try following them during oral sex. It is not appreciable if you are holding and pushing her head aggressively. She feels as if you are treating her like an object, and this is where she may feel disrespectful.
4. He doesn’t return the favors
Love is about give and take. If she is the one who is taking the lead every time for going down, she may gradually lose her interest. She wants you to return the favor too. The guys who are too lazy to give her oral sex should make it a religious habit to do so.
5. She finds it disgusting to swallow or taste his semen
Some girls find it disgusting to taste or swallow that distasteful semen. That’s a big deal! For them, there can be so many other erotic things to do in the whole universe (than just tasting or swallowing her guy’s semen).
6. He orgasms quite slowly
It is quite a task for a girl to continue oral sex for more than 5 minutes. It requires efforts and sincere dedication. *Wink* If he doesn’t orgasm within 1 or 2 minutes, she may feel tired, or sometimes demoralized too. She wonders if she is not doing it the right way.
7. Communication gap
For him, if swallowing semen is sensuous, that doesn’t mean the girl will have the mutual feeling. Sometimes, she may not be prepared to give oral sex, or she may not be in mood. It is a guy’s responsibility to know what she is comfortable in, when she can give him an exciting blow job, etc.